Thursday, June 14, 2012

Everyone falls in love with someone... somehow!

I have been spending the whole day listening to this wonderful song. Looks like love remains in the air :).

Woh chali, woh chali, dekho pyaar ki gali
Usse roke naa koi, woh chali, woh chali
Na na na meri jaan, dekho jaana naa vahan
Koi pyaar ka lutera lute naa meri jaan
Woh chali, woh chali, she' s found the love that' s real
Now her wounded heart is healed, finally, finally
Woh chali, woh chali, leavin' all her tears behind
Only love' s on her mind, finally, finally

No, she tried but she can' t hide all her joy wrapped up inside

She can' t wait to reveal and tell you how she feels
Well this time it feels so right, there' ll be no more lonesome nights
Good times are here to stay, love will shine on everyday
Woh chali, woh chali, she' s found the love that' s real
Now her wounded heart is healed, finally, finally
Woh chali, woh chali, leavin' all her tears behind
Only love' s on her mind, finally, finally

In my heart there is some pain, don' t ask me why I can' t explain

Maybe I did love her too, now there' s nothing I can do
On the other side of town, her love is waitin' on
And she' s waving me goodbye, I think my heart is gonna cry
Woh chali, woh chali, she' s found the love that' s real
Now her wounded heart is healed, finally, finally
Woh chali, woh chali, leavin' all her tears behind
Only love' s on her mind, finally, finally

Woh chali, woh chali, dekho pyaar ki gali

Usse roke naa koi, woh chali, woh chali
Na na na meri jaan, dekho jaana naa vahan
Koi pyaar ka lutera lute naa
Woh chali, woh chali, she' s found the love that' s real
Now her wounded heart is healed, finally, finally
Woh chali, woh chali, leavin' all her tears behind
Only love' s on her mind, finally, finally
Woh chali, woh chali, she' s found the love that' s real
Now her wounded heart is healed, finally, finally
Woh chali, woh chali, leavin' all her tears behind
Only love' s on her mind, finally, finally

Tuesday, June 12, 2012

Why should a relationship be a "Need" and not a "Desire"?

When was the last time I spoke to her? I think, it was on my birthday. A total of 3-4 min that day. It is her birthday today. I called her at 7 in the morning and wished her. We spoke for a little more than 2 min. Before that, I remember calling her on her wedding anniversary, the last December,  and if I am not wrong, once in between. In the past 6 months, I have spoken to one of my closest college friends for about 15 min on the whole. Is it because she is married now? Or is it that things have changed now we are out of college? Frankly, in the last three years, I have spoken for about three hours with her and haven't met her past her engagement. I am probably sure that we would have spoken more than that in a given week during the time we were in college. There was no obligation to be conversing at that point of time. We spoke because we liked to. And I am sure that she doesn't hate speaking to me today. Just that, we do not have anything to talk. Our conversations, still, start with how are you and end with a take care, but the time between the two has reduced as we do not have anything else to talk about. And that is the case with every other friend of mine, whose case study I haven't presented.
Change is the essence of life. But, isn't it we who are responsible for the change. In fact, we are responsible for every other action in our life. Why, then, do we not give importance to these relationships? Why is it that every person on earth takes relationships for granted? Search for something for themselves in it? I have seen people continue their relationships with their love over a long period of time. Why, then, is it so difficult to find time for the people who have been there in our lives? Why don't we hold the same importance for them once we have someone to love in our life? Were they just a substitute for the person who is now there in their lives? And at the end of everything, they do not shy off from complaining about others. Easy, as it is. It has always been easier to blame others. Accepting our faults, require courage. We need to have the sense of responsibility to accept our errors. 
I do not know what people feel about all this. May be down the line, I would feel stupid asking such questions to myself. Sever those people who once were inseparable. And the world will be happy if I do that. That is what everyone expects to be done. Sad, but true. 
People are never busy. We have work and commitments but we are not busy. We always find time to watch television, go through the newspaper, check our mails and visit social networks. We always have time to talk to our sweethearts. The only need is that we prioritize our friends. And it is non-sense to think that we do not have anything to talk to them. We spent almost whole of our college lives talking with them and suddenly we run out of things to talk about. It is really not fun to talk to someone who was so close to you twice or thrice a year, when it is a birthday or an anniversary. God forbid, we might end up calling them, one fine day, on such an occasion only to find that they cannot accept our wishes.